We happen to go out and attend friends. Normal. But some in Japan, said: "When the character of a man you seem indecipherable, look at his friends."
It would also add: his partner.
The multiplier is a social phenomenon that came to my mind, probably in psychology has a name more "fit" and less ridiculous, but let's leave it. There are people that taken alone or with others are very different. It happens to everyone ... if we turn to our best friend who acts as a "shoulder" and we in turn, we are perceived in some way different from when we are alone.
So sometimes it happens that when we go out with his girlfriend, his personality or maybe we are crushed by the other or both are changed: sometimes we are so attentive to the presence of the person you want to "keep up with us," that we behave differently. Here, sometimes we become less socially attractive: most often, the opposite. Or change little when the personalities of the two "factors" are well built and penetrated.
So there, in my opinion, a social multiplier that is put forward, in the presence of our associates. That's included in a specific context can be unpleasant, outlets, rude, boring, lazy or become nice, conquering or "the life of the party." It depends on us and the people with whom we accompany from their complicity and our temperament, which is multiplied (or divided) by their "coefficients". And so it goes for them, multiplied or divided by our factor.
Sometimes you create a complicity such that the result is huge, almost like an exponential.
These are the people that we seek, and what we surround ourselves: those multipliers of our being that make us move from chrysalis to butterfly. And conversely, leave wallowing in the primordial soup, people who do everything they can to divide our value.
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